509 Women are great
No one has understood
The burden of women
There is none equal in patience
Like women
She has patience
While carrying the baby in the womb
She will have it when
Brings up the child
After bringing up
She will have patience in living for it
Woman will exceed in patience
Even than the earth@
However men give
Company to them
Men do not have
The courage of women
Men do not have
The buddhi to understand them
Though they
Live with women
Though both are the same
In the body
How much they differ
In their heart
In this life in which
We live for our physical needs
Women are great indeed
As they live for the heart
However they strive
Men cannot
Understand this
Truth
Even after knowing this
The way women keep silence
Is their
Strength
Women who used with
Carrying the burden from
Womb to
The grave
Will continue to carry us along
With her burdens
Without having any means
To unload them
@ Earth is personified as a patience mother (note not a wife)
Mathigiri, 27-04-2019, 11.00 p.m.
As my Mami (my mother’s sister-in-law, who is 95) came to stay with us, I often listened to their talk in which they never become tired of sharing the same old struggles in life which they both underwent in the past and still carrying in their old age. Both their life is remarkable considering the way they served their best to bring up their children and take care of their relatives. Though temperamentally women sometimes remain intolerant (particularly in mother-in-law—daughter-in-law relationship with few exceptions), still they have immense patience in life. They seek more security than mere pleasure in life.
Somewhere I read that ‘while men seek pleasure women seek pleasure plus security’. A woman is an all rounder. She keeps an eye on everyone and everything in life. Whereas man is more task oriented person and focused on the current task than remain an all rounder.
For example when man eats he only thinks about the taste of the food. Whereas a woman thinks both taste and health of others. This you can see when she feeds her child which refuses eat her food (which the husband has to eat silently without passing any comment) the mother will do all kinds of gymnastic to feed her child. Of course it is completely a different matter that men are the best cooks as we have Nala(n) and Bhima(n) as the outstanding example for this. Unlike men (cooks) who can prepare a healthy and tasty food, women can prepare either tasty food or healthy food. They cannot strike a balance between two contradictory values in life as it is against their religion. However she cooks she keeps the health of the family members, particularly as a mother. But when the same healthy food served to the husband its taste will change according to the mood of both.
Just observe the life of any woman in your life. You will be surprised to note that she alone lives a complete life in which man only partially takes part and naturally never lives a complete life. No doubt woman alone makes a man complete and perfect. But we men rarely realize this or recognize it. That is why she has not only patience but has to carry our burden along with her own from womb to grave. Women are indeed GREAT.
3-5-2019
509 பெண்ணின் பெருமை
பெண்ணின் பாரம்
புரிந்தவர் இல்லை
பொறுமையில் பெண்ணுக்கு
ஈடிணை இல்லை
கருவினில் சிசுவை
சுமப்பத்தில் பொறுமை
பெற்றபின் வளர்ப்பதில்
அதனினும் பொறுமை
வளர்த்தபின் பிள்ளைக்காய்
வாழ்வதில் பொறுமை
பூமியை மிஞ்சும்@
பொறுமையில் பெண்மை
என்னதான் ஆண்கள்
துணையிருந்தாலும்
பெண்ணின் துணிவு
ஆண்களுக் கில்லை
கூடவே வாழ்ந்து
பார்க்கின்ற போதும்
புரிகின்ற புத்தி
ஆண்களுக்கில்லை
மனித உடலில்
ஒன்றாய் இருந்தும்
மனதில் மட்டும்
எத்தனை வேற்றுமை
உடலுக்காய் வாழும்
மானிட வாழ்வில்
மனத்துக்காய் வாழும்
பெண்மைதான் மேன்மை
எத்தனை முயன்று
பார்க்கின்ற போதும்
ஆணுக்குப் புரியாது
இந்த உண்மை
ஆயினும் அதனை
அறிந்த பின்னும்
அமைதி காப்பது
பெண்ணின் வலிமை
கருவினில் தொடங்கி
கல்லறை வரையில்
பாரமே சுமந்து
பழகிய பெண்மை
இறுதி வரையில்
இறக்க வழியின்றி
என்றுமே சுமப்பாள்
தன்னுடன் நம்மை
@பூமியை பொறுமை மிக்க தாயாகக் கூறுவது மரபு (மனைவியாக அல்ல)
மத்திகிரி, 27-04-2019, இரவு 11.00